Re: Introducing me
Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2015 1:11 pm
Hi Teresa
I just wanted to continue or open up the discussion a bit on law of attraction events involving our children and how that relates to us as parents or in a parental role. I don't want to put you off reading the book on bullies or sharing that with your daughter, but I continue to experience events where my children are attracting unpleasant and damaging events even though I feel currently I'm not necessarily attracting those events myself (that maybe subject to change as I become a bit more truthful and sensitive) . One thing I've attempted to do is to view or accept that the events are totally or partially (depending on the age of the child) dependent upon my own issues with and around men. So where that would differ would be examining the event emotionally myself for myself and with my own history and not expecting my child to be able to handle it or solve the issue if they are carrying what I've passed on to them. When I change, they can change. I'm not claiming that I've resolved much, but I have had some recent events that have repeated so that I cannot fail to notice what the attractions are even if I am still a bit blind to what attracts that to me. I've found recently re listening to the Law of Attraction talks has been helping me see a bit more clearly and of course the fact that is happening to someone I feel I would like to love and protect dearly is the best motivator. I'm sure I've heard this before - if we won't change for our kids who will we change for! I'm sorry that I can't be any clearer or more specific but I feel the real point I am trying to make for you and myself is that the best thing we can do is to accept we are part of the creation of the event (and experience any resistance and rebellion to that) and get to a position where we want to experience whatever in our souls and past is creating more pain now.
Amanda
I just wanted to continue or open up the discussion a bit on law of attraction events involving our children and how that relates to us as parents or in a parental role. I don't want to put you off reading the book on bullies or sharing that with your daughter, but I continue to experience events where my children are attracting unpleasant and damaging events even though I feel currently I'm not necessarily attracting those events myself (that maybe subject to change as I become a bit more truthful and sensitive) . One thing I've attempted to do is to view or accept that the events are totally or partially (depending on the age of the child) dependent upon my own issues with and around men. So where that would differ would be examining the event emotionally myself for myself and with my own history and not expecting my child to be able to handle it or solve the issue if they are carrying what I've passed on to them. When I change, they can change. I'm not claiming that I've resolved much, but I have had some recent events that have repeated so that I cannot fail to notice what the attractions are even if I am still a bit blind to what attracts that to me. I've found recently re listening to the Law of Attraction talks has been helping me see a bit more clearly and of course the fact that is happening to someone I feel I would like to love and protect dearly is the best motivator. I'm sure I've heard this before - if we won't change for our kids who will we change for! I'm sorry that I can't be any clearer or more specific but I feel the real point I am trying to make for you and myself is that the best thing we can do is to accept we are part of the creation of the event (and experience any resistance and rebellion to that) and get to a position where we want to experience whatever in our souls and past is creating more pain now.
Amanda