Mianoel wrote:
I would like to know how to get to touch the emotions causing this issue instead of each time just blocking on "I just don't get it…"
Does someone have any advice on how to get past this block and closer to emotions?
Hi Mianoel,
I feel you may be using the "I just don't get it" to avoid feeling the feelings which the law of attraction is bringing you.
What I mean is, that if nobody appreciates you for long enough, it is guranteed to bring up some emotional responses in yourself. Which you can choose to feel and release.
But I feel instead you panic about the law of attraction or better say the feelings that come up from the event, and throw in the towel, that you just don't get what is happening. Have you ever considered that you may be afraid to feel curtain things more than others? I recon it would be good to do an analysis about what issues you are likely to feel blocked about or say that you don't get them...?
And I also feel it may benefit you, next time to experiment with a different approach, instead of backing away from your true emotional response to the situation and go into a panic-y state which feels like a block, maybe try to remind yourself that you must be very afraid to feel what the event is showing you about yourself.
I think it is a step closer to feeling the truth than stating to yourself that you don't get what is happening.
"I just don't get it"... I know how this was my big tantrum for a while. I was 'stuck' in it by choice for a while, thinking to myself when is it that I finally get things.
But the reality is that I never really got anything while in that place, I only got things when I chose to be more honest about how I was really feeling.
Also I, on a regular basis,have these huge melt downs, about just how little I know about life, God, how things work etc. I usually have these meltdowns after I hear some new truth that I completely do not understand emotionally and when everything inside of me is screaming how can it be....
These big emotional waves used to freak me out completely, but I have noticed that when I allow myself to feel them fully, I feel open and emotional for a few weeks that follow, and I also don't have as many of these tantrums about not getting things either.
Not sure if this is going to be of any help to you,
Lena
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Edit
In the recent Partner Relationship session 4, Jesus & Mary discuss how my arrogance ruin my relationship (substitute here with whatever else, like life).
But I thought that this bit was very relavant to what Mia is asking about:
"If I stopped judging the attraction I would then be more likely able to understand and feel the attraction".
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