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by Alkhemst
Mon Sep 21, 2015 10:16 am
Forum: Fear & Terror
Topic: Fear of women's anger
Replies: 13
Views: 3786

Re: Fear of women's anger

Disregard that bit before the link, copied from an SMS and a bit of text before got left in.
by Alkhemst
Mon Sep 21, 2015 10:14 am
Forum: Fear & Terror
Topic: Fear of women's anger
Replies: 13
Views: 3786

Re: Fear of women's anger

Definately helps Nicky, thanks again! Just quickly, I found this article very apt for people like myself that developed co-dependent relationships. This one focuses on the criticism and the one being criticised dynamic in relationships:Sorry I didn't want to say out loud I'm just going to go. https:...
by Alkhemst
Mon Sep 21, 2015 4:40 am
Forum: Fear & Terror
Topic: Fear of women's anger
Replies: 13
Views: 3786

Re: Fear of women's anger

Just one more thing, in the interest of transparency, AJ has addressed these issues with me previously and recently too, so a lot of these reflections are also based on what he said to me. Also, he wanted to do so on video at the assistance group, which might have helped more people in a similar sit...
by Alkhemst
Mon Sep 21, 2015 12:12 am
Forum: Fear & Terror
Topic: Fear of women's anger
Replies: 13
Views: 3786

Fear of women's anger

It's hard to ignore this one for me, I tend to try and minimise it but the attractions are playing out on many fronts of my life right now, so whether I like it or not there's no denying I'm in denial and resistance to truth with avoiding women's anger. It's a current theme in my marriage, and every...
by Alkhemst
Thu Sep 17, 2015 10:24 pm
Forum: Addictions
Topic: I am responsible for only one persons actions, who and why?
Replies: 5
Views: 1659

I am responsible for only one persons actions, who and why?

I'm only responsible for mine, I can't change others or control their actions for them, when I tried in the past, it always ended up worse, I was left defeated and those others would be more firmly set in the ways I hoped to change for them. I've tried to change myself too with my will-power, I'd gi...
by Alkhemst
Thu Sep 17, 2015 8:54 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Hi from Mary
Replies: 11
Views: 3074

Re: Hi from Mary

Thanks again Mary. I find you and Jesus' relationship an inspiration. Jesus' uncompromising love and truth, how you've responded to that by continuing to grow in love, honesty and compassion for yourself, how its made you both grow closer together, not apart, which in my addictive mindset I'm afraid...
by Alkhemst
Thu Sep 17, 2015 8:45 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Hi from Pierre
Replies: 10
Views: 2003

Re: Hi from Pierre

Thanks for a really interesting intro Pierre, inspires me to do the same.
by Alkhemst
Thu Sep 17, 2015 8:41 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Hi from Laura
Replies: 3
Views: 925

Re: Hi from Laura

Hey Laura,

Nice to see you here!

David
by Alkhemst
Thu Sep 17, 2015 8:40 am
Forum: Assistance
Topic: How to?
Replies: 15
Views: 3280

Re: How to?

Hey Alkhemst I wanted to let you know that I really like your story about the wave. I think it's a great metaphor for processing emotion. It gives me a physical sensation of the experience. I particularly like the part about being held in Gods arms at the end, a beautiful image. Thank you. Max Than...
by Alkhemst
Tue Sep 15, 2015 11:59 am
Forum: Divine Truth Questions?
Topic: inhabitants of the universe
Replies: 12
Views: 3268

Re: inhabitants of the universe

Just going off my own interpretation it seems Myhanene is saying most of the stars that we see in the sky are actually the stem of physical matter that creates the substances needed to base the spirit worlds from? I never quite knew what Jesus meant by interstellar boundaries of love, describing di...